LOVE; EFFECTIVE WAYS TO STRENGGTHEN YOUR RELATIONSHIP.

Millions of relationships are being endures by couples that engaged in them and hundred of thousand couples endure the nightmare of relationship breakdown every year and the rate of broken relationship and divorce every days are still on the increase. It seems that many people find it very difficult to form lasting, happy relationships. Is there no ways out of these? Well!  There are ways out of these relationship problems.
Here are 4 common mistakes that kill relationships. Get rid of them from your relationship and you’ll enjoy a happier love and relationship life.

1. Without doubt, the single worst way to spoil your relationship is to be argumentative because you need to be right. This is DEADLY. Argumentative people will argue to the highest heaven until they “win” about everything and anything. They will not listen and they wouldn’t consider their partner’s viewpoints and will rarely if ever compromise. Any criticism, even if fair and justified will be met with stiff restriction, defensive and sometimes angry responses as the need to be right overrides the need to compromise and improve the relationship. Try not to get into silly, fruitless arguments and remember that winning arguments isn’t the objective, but what is best for your relationship, try as much as possible to avoid being an argumentative person in your relationship.

2. Respect for each is absolutely important. This means accepting and loving your partner for the wonderful, unique human being they are. However, many people actually believe they “own” their partner, and expect them to conform in ways they want them to be. This is more like slavery than love! Your partner is not your private property, they certainly aren’t your slave and it isn’t conducive to a happy relationship to restrict their freedoms by treating them this way. Your partner may want to grow in ways you may not like or even feel comfortable with but preventing their growth not only stiffens them but you as well. Because your partner will treat you in the same way. Instead of restricting each other’s freedoms, it is far better to encourage your partner to grow and become the kind of person they want to be. Indeed, this is the only way true love can flourish.

3.   Keeping the spark alive in a relationship is something many people that are in relationship fail to do. Contentment sets in, you start to take your partner for granted and gradually, the spark fades and dies. It’s so easy to fall into the contentment trap and the result is you stop making an effort for your partner. Your appearance changes, you don’t go out as much, and lots of other activities you used to do have been ditched. The mystery has gone, the challenge has gone, the spark just isn’t there! Keep it alive by making the effort to do new things, to enjoy new adventures and remember to do things separate from each other as well as with each other and you’ll reap the rewards.

4.   Routines can kill relationships in treble quick time, they are that bad. OK, we all need a certain amount of routine in our lives but when there is so much routine life becomes totally predictable, the boredom critter creeps in and eats away at your relationship. Imagine being in a relationship where you do the same things each and every week, nothing new is tried, no excitement, no adventure, no different romantic style!

You know what happens to a garden if it isn’t watered? It withers and dies. That’s what’s happening here.